Ladies:

Are you stumped as to why you keep getting dumped or replaced by a guy that you really care for, and you know that no one else can love him like you can? I can honestly say that I can relate to where you are coming from, I myself use to feel the same way about my past relationships. I use to go through the phase of I don’t need no man I can sit here all by myself and I don’t need anyone to love me. But the truth of the matter was that I wasn’t fooling anybody not even myself. I spend countless and endless nights and days crying to myself wondering if I would find ever find true love.

I know that it hurts to find out that the person you gave all of your love to was out loving somebody else. You spend alot of time replaying the relationship out in your head over and over trying to come up with the proper solution and you spend alot of time thinking about alot of what ifs and should’ve and shouldn’t have. But the truth is, it’s not too late to get him back just better yourself for your second chance around this time. Work on bettering yourself, once you better yourself you can work as a team to strengthen your relationship together. Read on below to gain some pointers. Make sure to tell me what you think about my postings I’m always open to other’s opinions.

I was speaking to somebody who will be breaking up soon. The statement went something like this- I did everything possible to save our relationship. I gave in a lot, but I could not save. We will be breaking-up soon. That has already broken my heart. This relationship was made brick by brick over so many years. What all we did not do to make it last? But alas, we are breaking up. I asked the person- how to you propose to go on in life now? There was no answer except a blank stare. This happens to most of us.

The immediate effect of the break-up is pain. The pain goes away slowly over a number of years, but the initial impact is high. It is the initial period during which one has to gather all the energy and tolerate the pain.

The second effect is bitterness and blame. There is recap of all the arguments and fights and there is a large amount of self-talk about how one were ditched. That is not pleasant. Try the following to overcome this phase.

Spend quality time with friends, involving you in new activities, and keep yourself busy.

Refocus yourself to your career. Make some very exciting plans and meet some intelligent and successful people. Begin talking to them about what you should do to enhance your potential. Find out what can be done best by you and how will you reach the top. Write down all these goals and focus on them.

The immediate effect of the break-up would be pain. Will you be able to take the pain? The pain would go away slowly over a number of years, but the initial impact will be high. You will have to gather all your energy and tolerate the pain.

The second effect would be bitterness and blame. You will non stop think about the behavior of your ex partner and fix blame everywhere. You will recap all the arguments and fights and there will be a large amount of self-talk about how you were ditched. That will not be a pleasant experience. You will have to find way out of all this by spending quality time with friends, involving you in new activities, and keep yourself busy. Are you ready for that?

The major effect would be the temptation to join immediately with anew partner. This can work both the ways. Some people never wish to form a relationship again after undergoing the trauma, while some want to form a relationship as soon as possible to forget the earlier one. Both of theses choices carry danger. The best alternative is to wait for sometime and when you find your stability and self esteem back, try and form another relationship. Are you ready for this?

First you begin finding mistakes in each other. Then you blame each other for small things. You blame each other for not caring. You start doubting if he/she was the same person you loved? Slowly this takes form of hatred. You begin to hate each other. You cannot bear to live together and break up.

Now you have two memories. The first is that of love that brought you together and the second is that of the hatred that pulled you apart. What do most of you remember after the break-up? It is the hatred that is most remembered, isn’t it? This is a paradox, but it is true. Why not remember love so you suffer less after the break-up?

Women are not like men. Many men forget that, when they enter into a romantic relationship. Women look at things differently and their choices are different. Men miss small patterns of behavior many times that can make them a big success with women. In this section, we talk about what men need to know about relationship with women to succeed and what are the common pitfalls that have to be avoided to get the woman of your dreams.

When in doubt, listen first and check to see if you have understood the other person by asking them questions. Often relationships go awry when people feel they aren’t being heard or understood and sometimes it’s important just to listen. You have to know what they want, not what you think is good for them. Listening is what helps us to find connection with each other. This also means you need to tell others what you really feel, think, and want. You can’t feel connected if you don’t voice these things.

Communicate simply when it is most critical that they hear you. Get clear in your own mind what kind of outcome you would like and try to state it in the most simple and specific terms. You will more likely be understood the more clear you can be, and often that means fewer words, not more. Sometimes repetition is necessary in getting through to someone what is really important to you.

Always show respect. Respect means listening, accepting a no when you are given one, not taking them for granted, being honest in your dealings with them, and not criticizing often or discouraging them. It is also important that you do not try to control others, and just as important that you show respect to yourself and ask that they treat you the same or be willing to walk away.

Know when it isn’t a healthy relationship. Just because you care about someone doesn’t mean you should be in a relationship with them at this time. They should be good for you, not addicted to anything, not controlling or abusive in any way, and make you feel secure and happy. It is not possible to make a relationship work with someone who doesn’t care about you, or who abuses a substance or you, so don’t try.

Seek to be good for others and don’t tear them down. People like to be with those who make them feel good and who are good for them. Lighten up and have fun together and your relationship will grow.

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As most Americans know, May 15th was this year’s gas-buying-boycott day. As widespread as that word reached (virtually nationwide, and I believe a fair number of people throughout the country participated), it had little or no impact on the prices at the pump. I think it is clear to most people that a buying boycott fails at the outset, unless overall USAGE is reduced by it. Just NOT BUYING for one day does not equate to NOT USING as much overall. It is the usage that needs to change if we are looking to impact prices in any way. Even that would take significant participation and would need to be repeated at frequent enough intervals to keep the pressure on the suppliers.

Step 1.

Recognizing what it means:Are we willing for such a sacrifice? Or, are we more likely to “suck it up”?It’s really up to us, as individuals, though I’m not sure how many of us are really up for it. I happen to be recently a fulltime mother of two and a stay at home mother, so it might be a bit easier for me to stay home now and then, thereby reducing my gas consumption (usage). But not everyone can do the same thing.I DO believe that most people could choose one day a month to set aside for a DRIVING BOYCOTT that I am promoting.And, please note that this boycott concept is not only about trying to reduce prices for gas and oil, but such a boycott would also go a long way toward reducing the current GLOBAL WARMING dangers.We are being told by the experts that we need to reduce the burning of fossil-fuels (among other things) in order to make any progress with reducing global warming.

Step 2.

Can it be done?My boycott goes like this, and I call it “P.R.A.B.O.” (Peoples’ Revolt Against Big Oil):In the spirit of the boycott for BUYING gas, I propose that we spread the word that we are committing to and participating in a “Nationwide Driving Boycott” for at least ONE DAY EACH MONTH.It does not need to be a nationally advertised specific date; instead, each driver can select their own one-day-per-month that fits their lifestyle best. It might even be a different day each month, as long as we all commit to doing something, and keep to that commitment for as long as it takes.

Step 3.



The need for commitment:The key is to really commit to really doing it. If enough of us CAN do it, and can stick with it, we can take back the power from Big Oil, and we can make a significant contribution in the global warming issue as well.In order to really get the power back, all who can participate must participate; else the effort will fail.I encourage all who read this to spread the concept to their friends and family; and encourage them to spread it, too.

Step 4.


The PRABO Mission Statement:While I know there is no real need for it, I came up with this “Mission Statement” (don’t we all need more of those?).”We the People of Planet Earth, in order to form a more perfect World, establish Justice and Equity, ensure a safe and healthy planet, provide for the Common Good, promote the General Welfare, and secure the blessings of Liberty, Freedom, Safety, Health and Survival to ourselves and our posterity, do ordain and establish this Monthly Driving Boycott commitment for the Peoples’ Revolt Against Big Oil (P.R.A.B.O.).”

Step 5.

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